"Chuck and WooWoo, Help! Me out I think this guy is really trying to play me but Im trying to give him a chance. I met him over twenty years ago and then we lost touch. Last year, we met up again and he told me that he had always been attracted to me but I was always dating other guys and wasnt into him. So we started talking on the phone. We never went on an actual date, but I did go to his home he cooked dinner once and then we started having a sexual relationship. After I figured out that all he wanted was sex, I stopped calling him and taking his calls. Now we are talking on the phone again and have made like 3 plans to go on real dates, but something always comes up and he cancels!! I dont get it. Its like he doesnt want an actual relationship with conversation and dinner dates and trips to the movies he just wants to get me in bed. Why do you think he keeps canceling? Should I just accept that he only wants sex and move on or should I try to figure out his issues?!? So confused."