Please keep me anonymous!!! I'm a happily married mother of 2. My husband & I have a solid marriage. Problem is - we have 2 adorable daughters but I want to go for #3. I really want 3 kids. And I want to see if Number 3 could be a boy. However - my husband is 110% against going for a 3rd. He does not want another child. 2 is enough for him. If theres one thing we fight about in our marriage - its this. The same fight happens just about every month when I ask if we can try. He says NO. And then we fight. It's ridiculous. I've always wanted 3 kids. I just don't feel complete in my family yet. Is there anything I can do to change his mind? Do you think he will come around? Or should I just accept it and move on.
The real problem is that you keep bringing it up. Something like this should not be broached more than every 6 months. Men will grow more adimant about their position if they are constantly pestered about it. And why is it that yor two kids are not enough for you. I think you need to look at yourself for your happiness as opposed to redirecting towards your husband. You have two kids, some don't even get that privilage.