About once every other week my boss, who is male, takes me to lunch. He has always been flirty-flirty, but were both married with kids and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. Yesterday he asked if we could go to lunch this Friday & maybe stop by Victoria's Secret to pick out a gift for Valentines Day for his wife. I don't want to say no to lunch. But I think shopping for lingerie would be soooo terribly awkward. Hes the type of boss that does not like hearing NO no matter the situation. Is there a way I can get around shopping? I mean is it even appropriate to look at thongs with a boss?