"Chuck and WooWoo,
Please Please PLEASE DO NOT use my name or post my email.
I'm going to try to make this short. Basically - I'm sleeping with one of my friend's dads. I have known her since elementary school. Her parents have been divorced 10 years. I'm 33. He is 59. We ran into each other at a bar last summer. He is handsome. Gorgeous. Like an older better looking Daniel Craig. He does not look his age. But the age does not matter. While we aren't head over heels for each other & planning a wedding...we are special to each other. I see myself with him for a long time. His daughter - my friend - lives in Florida. How do we share our relationship with her? I am scared that I will not only lose a friend but a relationship with him too. So any advice you can give me would be really helpful. It is a tough situation. He wants to tell his daughter & doesn't want her to find out from gossip or Facebook, etc. He thinks we - as adults - should tell her. Thank YOU!!!!!"