Listen to this...my boyfriend was married once before. Like 5 years ago. He and his exwife have no kids & the divorce was nasty. Just really rough and bitter and he was totally hurt (she cheated) by the split. He always talks poorly about her & said it was a mistake marrying her. Well - come to find out - they have re-connected via Facebook. Yep. She reached out to him to APOLOGIZE...and he took the bait. He is telling me now he wants to RECONCILE with her. Not get back together, he said he loves me - but he wants to become friends with her again. UM NO! Isn't this a recipe for disaster? She wronged him. Now she wants a friendship? Am I wrong for telling him to stay away? I am not controlling so I wont tell him what to do - it is his life. But I think this is a BAD idea. Right?!!!!!"