A listener said: "Can you take sides with someone when they are going thru a divorce? My sister announced over the Holidays while we were home - that she and her husband were getting divorced. Bad timing, I know!! But we saw it coming. Of course since she is my sister, I am on "her side". My husband said taking sides is immature. But her soon to be ex was caught cheating & hiding money. He and my husband were friends growing up - and he said he won't turn his back or take sides. He will be neutral & still maintain his friendship. Now of course I feel kinda bad for taking a side - but its my sister!!!! Is this OK to do? I have already DE-friended him from FB. Jerk!!! Thanks for reading. Here's to a Happy 2013!!"